NEWS OF THE WORLD The paper that invaded YOUR WORLD!

The News of the World is NO MORE!!!!!! its a shame really, it was an excellent read on a Sunday.

 Breaking news story after breaking news story! Turns out it was at the expense of EVERYONE'S privacy. No one has escaped the phone hacking scandal that has hogged headlines all of the country and even the world! 

When it comes to the dealings at News of the World I share the same sentiment as everyone else(outrage!!!). However, I am not just going to sit here and talk about how morally incorrect the organisation is, how horrible and underhand the Murdoch family are, or even how wrong it was that the whole paper shut down resulting in many innocent people being made redundant. I believe that there is a sub story here that has been completely overlooked.

Were the NEWS OF THE WORLD simply doing what WE, THE PUBLIC WANTED!!???


The BLOOD THIRSTY PUBLIC simply being given BLOOD TO DRINK!?

I know, I know it seems outrageous BUT!  lets really think about it.

Long gone are the days where the quality of the writing was what sold a newspaper. Long gone are the days when people bought newspapers in order to read articles written by their favourite writers. Nowadays, newspapers are sold based on:

1) What exclusive insight into a celebrities private life is splashed all over the front cover.
2) What guest celebrity writer is writing a mini biography about their battle through drugs/alcoholism, divorce or pregnancy

This is what we want! and recently NOTW has prided itself on delivering this in abundance. Thinking about it, how didn't anyone realise what was going on. Every other story was "oh this person left this message on this persons phone" or this "this person sent this e-mail or text message." why didn't we ever ask, "HOW DO YOU BLOODY KNOW?" The truth is that we did not care! we were being given what we wanted!


Lets not forget that this story has been going on for a very long time. We have known about the celebrity hacking for a while. All we herd was, "enquiry this", "enquiry that" but the paper was still printing these stories and nothing was really being done. We must remember that public power is unstoppable. There is nothing that cannot be achieved if the masses really want it! we were happy for the paper to continue doing what it was doing as long as it only celebrities that were being hacked. 


LETS THINK ABOUT THE TURNING POINT OF THIS STORY!


It was only when it was discovered that ordinary people were being hacked that there was real public outrage. Victims of the phone hacking included murdered schoolgirl Millie Dowler, relatives of deceased British soldiers, and victims of the 7/7 Bombings.  Only after these revelations did we decide that heads needed to roll and something had to be done! It suddenly dawned on us that hacking was wrong! WHAT ABOUT WHEN CELEBRITIES WERE BEING HACKED! is it not wrong that we didn't care! Its that stupid "hating" attitude that we have in Britain! "They deserve it, they live their life in the public eye." NOOOOOO!! since when did being rich and famous rob you of your human rights. 


I believe that the News of the World was a victim of the public's blood thirsty desire for unauthorised access into the private lives of the rich and famous. They believed that what they were doing was what the public wanted and completely forgot about the illegality of it. Either that, or they just didn't care or  perhaps thought that they would not be caught.. 


WE THE PUBLIC SHOULD ALSO REVIEW OUR INPUT INTO THIS SCANDAL AND STOP BEING A NATION OF HATERS!


Below is a picture of the alleged victims of this scandal

Are we all victims of DOUBLE STANDARDS!

I have had several requests to write a post discussing DOUBLE STANDARDS. I thought it was quite interesting that these requests came from my male friends! not a word from the females.

The official definition of a  DOUBLE STANDARD - Any code of principles containing different provisions for one group of people than for another, especially an unwritten code of sexual behaviour permitting men more freedom than women. (Dictionary.com)

I find it funny that the official definition depicts woman as the primary victims. Men have created one set of rules for themselves that women are not allowed to follow, yes, this is true. For instance men congratulate each other on having several sexual partners but will frown upon women that behave the same way. This is a massive double standard but it is one that have been embroided soo deeply into society it has become popular belief and practise. This is emphasised by the fact that women somewhat empose these double standards on each other as they will frown upon their fellow females for increased promiscuity  I personally believe that men and women ARE equal but they ARE NOT the same. Women also have double standards . When a man is well groomed, fashionable and looks after themselves women are the first to question their sexuality. Again this double standard has become a societal norm and is also accepted and adopted by men.


LETS DELVE DEEPER INTO THE WORLD OF THE DOUBLE STANDARD

When i was asked to discuss this topic, my friends were not thinking about the unwritten codes of sexual behaviour giving men more freedom. The tag line for this blog is, " A blog written by a young adult for young adults...." and for us young adults double standards go deeper. We are all different and have probably been affected by double standards in different ways. I can only speak about my experiences and what I have seen. In my mind these two types of double standard dominate our lives:


1) Giving advice to friends that they would not themselves follow


2) Expecting more from a sexual partner than you are willing to give.

DOUBLE STANDARDS & ADVICE

This form of double standard has killed many a relationship! Do not get me wrong this does not only apply to relationships, but is particularly damaging when exercised in a relationship. I am sure we have all been there; seeking relationship advice from friends and receiving a barage of advice that your friends would not  follow if they were in your situation. STOP LISTENING!!! to these double standards!!!! you will end up miserable. People do not realise that they are feeding you massive portions of double standard. The problem is that in giving advice to our friends, we tend not to consider the individual differences and feelings in a situation. Double standards are the cousin of societal norms. We tend to advise friends on what we believe is right in society rather than what is really right for them. Next time you are in relationship pickle, yes, ask for an opinion but the final decision should always be yours! Without sounding soppy follow your heart and do what feels right! If you are going to give advice, try your best to think about the indiviual and what they really want not just what is right by society.

THE SINGLETONS DOUBLE STANDARD

People please forgive me if I am, "Hotting up the game" but many men will say, "I am single so I am going to see loads of girls but none of these girls are allowed to see anyone else." huh!...... what!....... how about that for a double standard!. Yet this is so common amongst single men especially. You expect a woman to commit to you but you refuse to make a similar commitment because you are single. To make it even worse  many men actually get annoyed when a woman demands a similar commitment. You know something is wrong when you have to lie about it and this is exactly what men do. They will make that woman feel like she is the only one and will create all sorts of other excuses as to why we cannot fully commit.

I no longer want to hear men complain  about their partners friends intervening in their relationship if they partake in the singletons double standard. Ladies, I am far from a love guru so please refrain from contacting me asking for the tell tale signs of the singletons double standard, I will not be able to help you! 

I think double standards are cyclical. Imposing double standards as singletons normally results in us being victims of double standards of the friendly advice variety. I say we all adopt a W.G..I state of mind and attempt to create a world in which the double standard ceases to exist!

The BIG BANG vs The BIG MAN UPSTAIRS!

Absolutely everyone seems to have an opinion on the issue of religion vs science! There are many who do not believe in God and think that all life in this universe is a result of science. On the flip side there are those that do believe in God and the story of Genesis. There are also those that sit on the fence and simply are not sure. Personally this topic brings me a lot of heartache. I was born into an extremely religious catholic family. My grandmothers would put Dot Cotton to shame, as a child I spent many mornings singing and praying with my grandmothers and 5 in the morning when they would visit on holiday from Nigeria. I have been Baptised, had a Holy Communion, Confirmed; the whole shabang! but I really do have my doubts about religion.

This post is designed to help think about the key issues in the comparison. I will highlight a few and score each side hopefully helping me discover which side I lean towards because right now i am just sitting on the fence.

GENESIS vs KABOOM!

Understanding how the World came to be is hard as it simply cannot be proven. It depends on the individual and what makes more sense to them. The thought of a sudden BANG! resulting in the creation of the universe seems very far fetched to me. Things do not just happen all of a sudden, there is a process to every occurrence on this planet. My friends Matt and Gabriel highlighted this point to me with the analogy  of the box. A box does not just move on its on. Some sort of force or some sort of action goes into moving it otherwise nothing happens. This would suggest that there would be some sort of higher power responsible for the big bang (If it happened). Here, I think the story of GENESIS wins!
1-0 GOD

The BIBLE vs The TEXTBOOK

The main problem I have with the bible is that it is supposed to come directly from God but the stories and lessons within it come from man. I would be so much happier if the story of the bible is that it just appeared in the holy land under the spotlight of the North Star or some sort of magical occurrence. As things stand its origins are not clear, and for all we know we have fallen victim to the worlds greatest game of CHINESE WHISPERS!

For thousands of years the Bible has been used as a tool to control the masses. Since ancient times the bible doubled up as not only religious testament but also the constitution for many nations. The bible set out the rules that governed entire empires! It was therefore inevitable that rulers and dictators started manipulating the sacred book to control the people. This is why I believe that there are so many different forms of Christianity today. The fact that a lot of original differences in Christianity had geographical origins is NO COINCIDENCE.

At the same time the theory behind the BIG BANG is also human based. The Big Bang theory comes from research and experiment. Humans have researched and experimented on many phenomenon on this planet and got it wrong. For centuries we were made to believe that the World was flat!!! A lot of human discoveries have been altered and changed over time because of human error, Who is to say we have not got it wrong again! This is a very tough one to decide but personally I am going to give the score to God because the fundamentals of the bible are morally correct and seemingly have holy origins, as supposed to human ones. This is the benefit of faith. It is easier to live by the laws of a higher power than that of a mere human. What gives fellow man the right to dictate how we should live our lives!  

God takes an early 2-0 lead

ANCIENT vs MODERN

Many argue that religion and the bible was designed for ancient times and have little relevance in today's society. Atheists will tell you that the way they live their lives is morally correct and appropriate for society today. To an extent I agree. Atheists do not have direct rules and restrictions like the ones religion imposes on the rest of us. They know the difference between right and wrong and do not need direct laws to govern their lives.

Many religious laws are outdated and simply do not apply to society in 2011. It does not make sense that our society today share the same laws and rules with medieval society. With all the progress man has made and human advancement  it is ridiculous to suggest that the same laws apply. My favourite example here is the idea of sex before marriage! Sex before marriage was an extremely easy law to adhere to in biblical times as the average age for marriage was 14/15!! If you were having sex before that age then you really were a "tainted woman" Things are very different today. The average age of marriage in the UK is 29. I believe it is ridiculous to expect anyone to hold out for that long, especially in a generation dominated by sex! Just the other day I was told a story about a woman who refused to partake in sex before marriage. However this did not stop her and her partner exploring other sexual avenues! How can you avoid sex before marriage in order to be pure and then perform acts far more "impure". For this reason the score here has to go to the Atheists!
2-1 to God


MIRACLES vs ANOMALIES

Do miracles exist? Does God hear our prayers and answer them? or do things happen that we just simply cannot explain? I do not believe that God works with us humans on a personal level. He does not hear the prayers of every single person on this planet and decides whose prayers he will and won't answer. For a while I flirted with the idea that when we died those that made it to heaven became Gods little helpers and listened to all our prayers like a call centre but I grew out of that one quickly! .In explaining instances of extreme healing or recovery, I simply believe that the human body has the capacity to do amazing things, after all we do only use a small percentage of our brains. However in the midst of adversity many people turn to religion and it is their faith that gives them the ability to create their own miracles! For that reason I am giving this one to religion as miracles might not happen directly at the hands of God but faith and religion spur us on to create our own miracles.

FINAL TOTAL: The BIG MAN UPSTAIRS  3 - 1 The BIG BANG THEORY

You could discuss these topics for days. This is just a brief post to get us thinking about where we really stand  on the subject instead of just sitting on the fence! As you can see I am definitely a believer in God but perhaps not in the conventional Christian way. I believe that God created this universe and everything in it. Where I differ from your average Catholic is that I do not think he answers our prayers on a personal level. He created man with the intelligence and capacity to fend for itself. I do not think we turned out the way he quite expected as our thoughts turned to greed and jealousy and we began to sin. This was why Jesus had to come down and save us. Since then God has seemed to adopt a hands off approach and lets us get on with it!